Or, Let’s Talk About Socks... Most people know what a wedding looks like. They can picture the white dress, the walk down the aisle, the photos, the speeches, the bit where someone cries unexpectedly and pretends it is hay fever. But very few people stop to ask a more interesting question: What is a wedding actually for? Because if it is just a performance, a sequence of traditions borrowed from other people’s days, then what makes it special? What makes it yours? I believe a